Archive for June, 2010

successful camping excursion to lake tahoe

Friday, June 25th, 2010

i willingly admit that i'm much more five-star than under the stars. i much prefer egyptian cotton to waterproof gore-tex.

but today, i'm patting myself on the back because i survived four nights camping with two two-year-olds, sleeping on dirt in a bag in startling proximity to a foraging black bear. and, i had fun!

how did this come about, one might ask.

well, we didn't have it in the budget for summer on cape cod this year, but i knew it would be necessary to get the family out of the fog to remember that summertime, everywhere else north of the equator, means sunshine and warmth, beaches and barefeet, ice cream and corn-on-the-cob.

so, when a friend offered us a campsite reservation at dl bliss state park, i jumped on it despite the fact that we own not one iota of camping gear. not even a tent. unless you count parker's ladybug tent. fortunately, we have good and generous friends and family, and after a few phone calls we were totally hooked up. plus, michael read was joining us with his adorable blonde girls, (malena-four, sylvia-two) and traveling kitchen. we were good to go.

the subaru packed to the gills, we left on father's day around noon. i had packed, shopped, and strategized gear acquistion for more than a week. the ride up was peaceful, the kids slept much of it and we arrived at a beautiful site just up a small hill from a sandy beach on the shore of the lake.

dl bliss state park is slightly north of emerald bay, one of the prettiest spots on lovely lake tahoe. the site had a grill, fire pit, food locker, running water nearby, and clean bathrooms with hot showers.

we enjoyed three nights of gorgeous sunsets, campfires, s'mores and jiffy pop, and celebrated michael's birthday with mojitos, champagne, chicken teriyaki, corn-on-the-cob, and a lemon cake. days were spent basking in the warm sun and plunging in the refreshingly chilly lake water, riding bikes or putzing and lounging around the campsite. or for roman, playing taxi cab in the front seat of the subaru. the girls got along famously–instant bffs. definite bliss.

but, the state park folks mean it when they warn you about the tenacity of the resident bear population – food needs to be locked away unless you are in the midst of preparing it lest you get slapped with a thousand dollar fine or worse, mauled by smokey. leave nothing with odors in your car, including toiletries and diapers, put away any garbage in locked bins.

and sure enough, just after twilight on our last night, we heard a screech for a nearby camper's whistle and others clanging pans. bear! i looked up  to see the hulking silhouette of a magnificent black bear lumbering on the edge of camp.

ok, next time, maybe a resort...


brannan cottage inn, calistoga, napa, ca

Monday, June 14th, 2010

my cousin jules is the closest i'll ever have to a sister.

our mothers actually are sisters, so we have known each other since we were born, almost exactly one year apart.  we share a history, some family dysfunction, physical resemblance, similar senses of humor, and can finish each others' sentences. the only thing that sucks about our relationship is the 3,000 mile distance between boston and san francisco.

last november we met in nyc for a long weekend to celebrate our birthdays. we left the kids and men behind and had an amazing weekend roaming around in the west village, chelsea, the village, and the upper east side.

this time she came west and arrived here late thursday night. i had been wanting to explore calistoga for friscomama and uptake.com as its been some time since i've been there, and it has long remained my favorite town in napa. i love the funky unpretentiousness of it. it is an unapologetic western frontier town that feels frozen in time.

here you will find plenty of authentico mexican restaurants but no $350 prix-fixe french laundries or exorbitantly-priced tasting rooms like elsewhere in napa valley. not that there's anything wrong with the french laundry. i'm sure thomas keller does a bang-up job and i would be beyond delighted to dine there.

oh, and then there is the water. calistoga's healing thermal springs are rightfully the stuff of legend.

i was invited to spend the night at the brannan cottage inn by the gracious proprietors doug and judy cook, so we cruised out of town directly after parker's pre-k graduation party.

the adorable gingerbread victorian with a white picket fence was built in 1860 by sam brannan, an entrepreneur, gold speculator, and publisher who profited by the healing properties of the nearby mineral water and the hot springs.

we arrived just in time for wine and cheese served in the parlor. i tasted a delicious cheddar marbled with porter ale and sipped a crisp lake county chardonnay from  guenoc winery while we mingled with doug, judy and the other guests. judy divulged that the periwinkle room is rumored to be haunted by a benign presence, which of course, totally intrigued me.

our accommodations were in the comfortable lavender suite, with a private entrance and a sitting area with fireplace and day bed. perfect for megan and her dog juneau who arrived a bit later.

not only is brannan cottage inn dog friendly, but the well-appointed suites are a great option if you're traveling with kids. but don't get me wrong, i was quite content not to have my little darlings along! but, there is a large landscaped lawn to romp around, with adirondack chairs, enclosed by the picket fence.

breakfast was tasty french toast with chicken and gouda sausage enjoyed outside on the sunny patio. after, we went on our separate ways – jules got a pedicure, megan walked juneau, and i went to check out the wine sensory experience at the w.h. smith tasting room.

i had no idea what to expect when i arrived and was greeted by t'anne and a table full of mysterious black glasses. each glass contained the essence of a aromas associated with wine and it was my job to guess what they were. ok, i was admittedly a bit hungover from last night's wine at calistoga inn and not really up for a quiz at 10am, but as soon as i began, i was so compelled to figure out all of the different scents and see how i measured up. some were easy – anise, mint, coffee but the fruits had me puzzled and i guess most of them incorrectly. i did ok overall, according to t'anne and she then poured some wines for me to taste. it was a really cool experiment and left me wanting to train my nose for better enjoyment of the wine tasting process.

we came back and lounged on the lawn for a bit – it was so relaxing on the lawn in the balmy calistoga afternoon. the evening before we talked about staying another night – and it turned out we almost had to! we were set to leave – megan and juneau in the range rover heading to sonoma, jules and i to go across the street for massages and the mineral pool at indian springs. i jumped in the subaru, turned the key. nothing. completely dead. fortunately megan had jumper cables and our wonderful host doug patiently hooked them up for the three clueless blondes, and we were on our way to lunch at v. sattui winery.

i can't wait to return in september!!


blogher!

Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

i've wanted to check out this conference since it came to san francisco a couple of years ago but have never been able to get it together or grant myself permission to go. yesterday, i sat down to see if there was still space and found out that not only is it sold out, but there are more than 1,000 people on the wait list!

i moped around glumly, chastising myself for not making it happen once again, especially because this year it's in nyc. later, i retreated upstairs to my office to work on some queries for sf select, my travel book that publishes in the fall. on my desk was an envelope with my name on it. inside was an order confirmation for blogher 2010 purchased on the sly by my wonderful husband. i'm going!! i couldn't be more thrilled! thanks, baby. you rock!

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i'm hanging out at progressive grounds coffee house in bernal heights. cute place. crunchy, friendly, with a patio, mitchell's ice cream, hipsters, locals, lesbians, and lilting spanish accents. i rarely get to this side of town, but it is such a sweet neighborhood and the weather is often sunnier and warmer where we live in nopa on the edge of the fog break.

so, what am i doing here? well, parker graduated from pre-k last week, (sniffle, sniffle – but i miraculously managed to hold my shit together during the ceremony), so we signed her up for a park & rec summer camp for a week so we wouldn't have to listen to her complain about how bored she is. at least this week. i was a little trepidatious as it approached since i/she didn't know anyone else going and i have no experience with urban park & rec type camp stuff. i grew up in the suburbs. camp for me is always associated with woods, gymp and white kids not rec centers, concrete and multiculturalism.

all for naught. she had a good time yesterday exploring the area, going to the playground and playing kickball and capture the flag. today they are going to see monsters versus the aliens. she sauntered off in her fearlessly independent way, just waiting for me to disappear. i thought i had a few more years before she was embarrassed to be seen with her mother, but nope. by the end of the week she'll be asking me to drop her off a block away.